Bella, 19, Ohio and NC. Punk, queer, feminist, librarian, worrier, atheist, bleeding heart, vegetarian, shy, immature, hairy. I mostly use my tumblr for things that are queer, sexy, silly, or pretty, or some combination of those. Also, Morrissey, whining and over-sharing about my life, and butts. My pronouns are she/her/hers and gender neutral ones (they/them/theirs or ze/hir/hirs) are fine too.

26th February 2012

Post reblogged from Grubby Life with 20 notes

Some things from The Ethical Slut that are good to remember:

celbelrai:

-Practice the skill of staying quietly with both your own and your lovers’ pain.


-Difference is wonderful, and remind yourself: this is not a contest, this is not a race. We all get to win. [context of not being anyone’s everything]


-Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability.


-However awkwardly you may be expressing yourself, this is your truth; you obviously feel strongly about it, so it’s an important truth. That’s what we learn from our outbursts.

Tagged: the ethical slut

Source: celbelrai

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